love this.... memory-takeaway... college tours for both children and grands and related progeny... Now I see the tours are really for me, I chance for a do over, what might have been.. My mother would often say youth is wasted on the young at the same time saying.. "it is their life not yours, yuo can't go back, just watch and end enjoy the ride. try to be quiet or at least a bit encouraging" Thank you for posting..